Combine RAD, FAS, ADHD, PTSD, ODD; add a lot of Prayer and Determination; simmer for a lifetime. Hope for the best.
Since you are working your raw ingredients ('taters and beans)and trying to make your alphabet soup more palatable, I see you more as the Chef. (Would that make the husband your Sous chef? :) )
I agree with the chef comment. What kinds of chefs are there besides head and sous?
Another vote for Chef. You could also be House Maid (you know, head of the household), or go all Harry Potter and be House Elf. Whatever you decide on, I think J should be the Butler or the Valet.
I like Chef too or you could be head chef and your little ingredients might be sous chefs or line cooks. Enjoy your time away.
i vote for Super Mom.DAD
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